The Culture of Bedrooms
My grandmother’s bedroom must have been something of a sacred place. As a child, you were not allowed to enter it. Only in very rare exceptional cases, perhaps when grandmother was looking for something, were you allowed to enter this room. But then it turned into a magical place. The large mirror of the Frisian chest of drawers distorted one’s own image, below the hairbrushes, hair clips and many never-before-seen objects, unfamiliar smells of unfamiliar soaps, heavy drawers and then the huge bed with the large print of the young Mary with the baby Jesus above it. An adventure.
Many years later, grandma had long since lived with us, she allowed me to photograph this room…. Thus began the story of how I came to the “Room of Secrets” and started photographing bedrooms.
First I photographed bedrooms from my grandmother’s generation, that is, from the 1930s and 1940s. Many of the bedrooms were in their original condition, just as the then young couple had once furnished them after their marriage. The same wallpaper, the same picture and the same bed linen.
The picture behind the bed on the wall indicates the denomination of the couple: Catholics chose a picture with a depiction of Mary, while Protestants preferred pictures with motifs of Jesus and angels. The pictures were very often sold by travelling salesmen who had up to 10 pictures with religious motifs on offer.
I had noticed that the woman usually slept on the right side of the bed (on the left in the picture) and the man on the left. Often there were small crosses hanging on the wall, which the couple had received for their wedding and which went with them on their last journey.
In many pictures, the alarm clock indicates the time of death of the spouse. Sometimes the bedding of the deceased was removed, sometimes the bed was left as it was.
Many of the 80 to 90-year-old owners did not think of replacing the bed with modern beds; only health reasons or the loss of the partner could change this.




























































